January 31, 2017

Fwd: herro


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From: Colby John Decker <colby.decker@myldsmail.net>
Date: Sun, Jan 29, 2017 at 6:11 PM
Subject: Re: herro
To: Robin Decker <robinlynnd@gmail.com>


Hello Mother!!! How are you? My week has been really good. We have a new missionary schedule it's pretty cool. I'm feeling good. My stomach is better i'm getting used to food. I like rice. I eat it plain sometimes. It's weird I just realized that. My companion is cool. I'm leaving in a week though. I want to share this sacred experience with you that happened this week that I wont put in my letter because it's really dear to me. So I was on a switch off with Elder Blad the district leader, and we were going to a baptismal interview for one of my investigators Ankhan. So we get there and Brother tea is there who got baptized on Christmas. We sat down together after the other two went off to do the interview so I had some one on one with him. So I decided to open up the scriptures to Mosiah 28:3 (which I love right now) and talked about missionary work. Little background on Tea he's a cambodian who is here for work. He got baptized in another church and loves jesus and we were an answer to his prayers because he was looking for a church to go to and we asked him if he wanted to go to church. So we're talking about missionary work and he's pretty much a missionary because he tells people he's christian and he works from 1pm-2 in the morning because he wants to show his boss christians are good people. He's most humble cute little guy that I have ever met and probably ever will meet. He gives the little food he has to little children. So I was talking about how we share the gospel in order to give happiness to other people and he's already doing that and he just started to open up. He said when he came here he had no job, no money, nothing and was asking people to work for just food and they wouldn't give it to him. Than he started to cry and talk about how he had to eat out of the trash can to get food and it made me cry. He said what brought him happiness in that time was God and the Bible he carries around with him cause that was all he had. I bore my testimony about something I can't remember but I've never felt the spirit so strongly. It also made me reevaluate myself and try to be a better person. I love this mission and the joy it's bringing to me right now even though it's so hard. I wanted to share this with you because I felt like you needed it right now but you can share it to whoever you like. I love you and miss you Mom!!! You're the best!  

Elder Decker
เอ็ลเดอร์ เดคเคอร์
Thailand Bangkok Mission


January 29, 2017

Fwd: I Think It's Going to Rain

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From: Colby John Decker <colby.decker@myldsmail.net>
Date: January 29, 2017 at 7:30:08 PM PST
To: Robin Decker <Robinlynnd@gmail.com>
Subject: I Think It's Going to Rain

วัสดีครับ!!! This week has been so good. First, I want to talk about the title "I Think It's Going to Rain" because I think it's funny. So in Thailand the weather is a big deal for them for some reason and if it rains they say they can't do anything cause I guess they're all allergic to it or something. But we were taught a way to avoid questions and redirect the conversation. We get a lot of questions about if my daughter is attractive or not, or if we like Trump and it puts us in a weird situation. So our Zone Leader taught us a way to get out of these situations. You ask them "Is it going to rain?" or say something about the rain and they'll tell you, "it's not going to rain", and you say "It definitely will rain" and they forgot what they asked before. It works, I've tested it a couple times already. I honestly don't know how to answer those questions. But I think it's going to rain.

This week has been so much fun. I already talked about last P-Day, but Brother Day's Grandma was so cool. His dad actually doesn't know his whole family is getting baptized so we asked him to tell him because his dad is working as a chef in Taiwan and doesn't realize his whole family is getting baptized haha. It would be funny to come back and find out his whole family is Christian.

I ate a dried prick or a dried pepper that burnt my mouth for days and my stomach felt burnt for a couple days too, so there was that. Coco Buns are really good I'm addicted to them. We taught a guy named Isis sitting on the platform of a spirit house. One of our investigators wanted to learn about Jesus and Christianity because of Assassin's Creed. We're teaching a guy who makes Golden Trees that Buddhists worship. He does it just to Tham Buun. It's not his living. It's interesting. I love English class. I still can't speak English. The word for rose in Thai isn't pretty at all. Its Dog Gu Laab. We have a lot of appointments cancel on us because no one really has time. It's hot and it's cold season here. Apparently I'm handsome for an American. 

I went on a switch off with the District Leader and it was cool. We visited this Less Active member who has a ton of faith, just doesn't go to church, same with her family. I don't really understand it. They have a car and everything but the Dad isn't baptized and isn't interested so it's hard. Sunday we had an hour of church where we talked about getting more involved in missionary work. They have a lot of good ideas just need to put some action into it. My favorite person in the world is Brother Tea. Humblest guy I know. We visited a less active who asked us where our spirits come from in Pre-Earth life and we asked him if it was gonna rain. Haha. Just kidding. We didn't really know how to explain it well enough and didn't want to get to into it. He's a really cool guy named Brother Bob who works for Fabrinet. That was my week pretty much haha.

So last Friday, we had a Missionary Broadcast which was really good. Our schedules changed so now we have an hour at night to either sleep early or study. But there was something that Elder Bednar said in it that I really liked. I've been thinking lately, why do people not feel the spirit I'm feeling or why don't they accept the things I'm saying through the Holy Ghost because it is there. Why can't they recognize it and want to change. But he said we can do all we can to bring it unto the hearts of the people, but we can't bring it into. It's their choice to accept the Gospel and have a desire to feel what is there in the lesson. You can't deny the evidence of the Holy Ghost if you've felt it before. People recognize it even if they've never heard about God before or Jesus Christ before and the Holy Ghost. It's a burning sensation and a peace and happiness that only the Gospel and the Truth brings and that's why this work is so successful. Good will always conquer evil. I was talking to one of the members here about why they got baptized and she said it just made sense. The Gospel just makes sense really. Everything else doesn't make sense. If we're following the teachings of Jesus Christ, things make more sense and we can be guided on the path to live with God again. This Gospel changes peoples lives and I've seen it in so many people here. It's a beautiful thing. I love it here in the other side of the world. Miss and Love you all!

Sorry I don't have a lot of pictures this week but that's our church that holds over 100 people

Elder Decker
เอ็ลเดอร์ เดคเคอร์
Thailand Bangkok Mission

January 23, 2017

Fwd: Head, Shoulders, Knees, and Toes

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From: Colby John Decker <colby.decker@myldsmail.net>
Date: January 23, 2017 at 12:57:04 AM PST
To: Robin Decker <Robinlynnd@gmail.com>
Subject: Head, Shoulders, Knees, and Toes

Hello everyone! This week I don't have that much time. My P-day today hasn't gone as planned haha. But yeah today was fun we left to go teach one of my recent converts grandma who lives 3 hours away and ended up leaving late because we were on khon thai time. His grandma is so cute but she has a thick western accent so it's hard to understand haha. His uncle is a director at a school and we taught some 8-10 year olds english and taught them to sing head shoulders knees and toes. I don't know why I keep teaching kids haha. It's so fun though. They have never seen white people. It's some area a little outside Bangkok. 
But this week Brother Tea and Brother BawBia got the priesthood which was so cool. Brother Bawg got the Holy Ghost at the last minute haha he came late. It's been hard getting new investigators because they keep missing the appointments or telling us they aren't free. Later on that Sunday, we went to Brother Wisud's house, the one who just baptized Bawg, and had a little intervention thing with his mom. A lot of the ward went. He's had some issues in the past with money stuff and gambling and he was apologizing to her. I didn't know what was going on. It was really interesting to see the culture.
I had Zone conference the other day and it was cool. I had to give a little talk about the miracle that happened last week with one of the less active member I was trying to get back to church (Wisud) baptizing Brother Bawg. They are changing some thing with the schedule of our day this week. There is some big broadcast Thursday so that's really exciting.
Since I don't have that much time I like to leave off with a couple of scriptures that relate to everyone in their life. I like them a lot. 
2 Nephi 28:7-9 & 2 Nephi 31:20-21. 
Love you all and miss you all!
Sorry no pictures I'll be better next week.

Elder Decker
เอ็ลเดอร์ เดคเคอร์
Thailand Bangkok Mission

7 Yea, and there shall be many which shall say: Eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow we die; and it shall be well with us.
8 And there shall also be many which shall say: Eat, drink, and be merry; nevertheless, fear God--he will justify in committing a little sin; yea, lie a little, take the advantage of one because of his words, dig a pit for thy neighbor; there is no harm in this; and do all these things, for tomorrow we die; and if it so be that we are guilty, God will beat us with a few stripes, and at last we shall be saved in the kingdom of God.
9 Yea, and there shall be many which shall teach after this manner, false and vain and foolish doctrines, and shall be puffed up in their hearts, and shall seek deep to hide their counsels from the Lord; and their works shall be in the dark.

20 Wherefore, ye must press forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope, and a love of God and of all men. Wherefore, if ye shall press forward, feasting upon the word of Christ, and endure to the end, behold, thus saith the Father: Ye shall have eternal life.
21 And now, behold, my beloved brethren, this is the way; and there is none other way nor name given under heaven whereby man can be saved in the kingdom of God. And now, behold, this is the doctrine of Christ, and the only and true doctrine of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost, which is one God, without end. Amen.

January 16, 2017

Fwd: Another week down


Another great week down in the mission. I just love this work. This internet run has no air conditioning so I have to try and not get the keyboard wet haha. This week has been a lot of fun. We have been doing a lot of contacting because a lot of our potential investigators haven't come to their appointments so we had to go out and talk to people on the streets or at colleges. It's really fun sometimes and also frustrating because every time they say no to you they're really rejecting Christ and his message. The Thai people believe that all religions teach people to be good and like to tell us that a lot. Or I'm Buddhist already I don't need another religion or don't have time, or another thing. I don't know. But it's so much fun haha. A lot of Thai people are surprised I can even say hello in Thai. We ride the Song Taws and most the time we're hanging off the edge of it cause it's packed haha. Getting around Bangkok is hard even for Taxi drivers. Since I have to lead the area I have to be able to get around and tell the taxi drivers where to go.
Last Monday was cool. We had an appointment with a couple of people that day and one of them fell through so we didn't do too much for P-Day except TEACH REPENTANCE! haha but yeah it was fun. Tuesday, we had our English class and some people from the English camp came so it was good. I still teach Intermediate so they understand some and speak some so it's really cool. One of the Elders in our district has to go back to Laos to renew his visa and stay there for a week because he only had a 30 day one in Thailand so we have Elder Bunker in our companionship now for a little while. Last Friday, Brother Bawg got interviewed for Baptism and passed. He's such a cute little old guy. He's so happy all the time and was helping the members move houses. He wants his family to be an Eternal Family. He has 3 kids and a wife but the wife works on Sundays, and the oldest daughter is in Korad so it's gonna be a lot of fun. He's so humble and has so much faith. Last Sunday he was baptized by a Less Active member named Brother Wisud. Brother Wisud invited him to learn about Jesus Christ so he took the lessons with us and got baptized. It was such a miracle. He has so much faith and he was so happy after he was just smiling the whole time. It was such an amazing experience. I love teaching people about repentance and seeing the process of conversion and the change that they go through. 
This week, during my personal study, I came across these verses in John 15:
 18 If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you.
 19 If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.
 20 Remember the word that I said unto you, The servant is not greater than his lord. If they have persecuted me, they will also persecute you; if they have kept my saying, they will keep yours also.
I've faced a lot of persecution and met people that don't really like missionaries that much. When I read these verses I realized that I'm doing the Lord's work and Satan does not like it. They don't hate me personally they just don't like my beliefs and pretty much me. Since I'm not doing things of the world, and teaching people not to be of the world, people don't like it because it's a hard thing to do. It's really easy to give into worldly desires and become like the world but it's not good. It doesn't bring real happiness. It's hard to follow the commandments and Jesus Christ but this life shouldn't be easy. Eternal Life shouldn't come easy. The commitments we give our investigators help them on the right path but we can't force our agency on them. Everyone has their agency whether they choose good or evil. I'm learning a lot of patience on my mission and also what true joy and happiness is. This Gospel does change lives and I love this calling, to be a representative of Jesus Christ in Thailand. I love you all and miss everyone!

Elder Decker
เอ็ลเดอร์ เดคเคอร์
Thailand Bangkok Mission

January 9, 2017

Fwd: English Camp and Jesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam

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From: Colby John Decker <colby.decker@myldsmail.net>
Date: January 9, 2017 at 1:05:52 AM PST
To: Robin Decker <Robinlynnd@gmail.com>
Subject: English Camp and Jesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam

Hello Everyone! This past week I've been thinking about how I get to be a missionary for the entire year of 2017. It's so much fun. This week has been such a good week. Last Tuesday, I got a call from one of our potentials telling me that she wants to meet and to teach her kids or (deg deg in Thai). So on Wednesday, I was on a switch off with an Elder from the group that came 6 weeks before me. So we hardly know that much Thai or enough just to manage. I get to the place after taking forever to find it and it's a little Christian preschool with a bunch of 4-6 year olds. I was so confused because I thought we were going to teach a family but it turned out she meant her students. So they wanted us to teach a little short story about Jesus and a song. So we shared about Jesus loves everyone and wants you to love everyone and I'm pretty sure the little kids had no clue what we were saying but it was fun. Than they wanted us to sing with them and I was like we have just the right song and I taught them how to sing Jesus Wants Me for a Sunbeam in English. It brought me back to Primary. I told them to jump every time they heard sunbeam and they had so much energy. But yeah they want us to come back but we can't because we're not allowed to. But it was fun. Later that day we bumped into one of our investigators and asked him if he wanted to eat with us. The power went out and we ended up eating a candlelight dinner. It was really fun. I also met a lady that wants me to tiaw (sight see) with her and she calls me all the time. I tell her to come tiaw at the church at 9 am on Sunday haha. She didn't come though.
Last Friday, we had a service project where we went to a Massage University to teach English. So we had 6 Elders go to a school to teach English from 9-4 and most of the students were 19-21 year old, mostly girl, college students who spoke a little English. Each companionship had a class and our class was to help them pronounce hard sounds in English for Thai people. Like R's and V's. I Really liked that part. We played games with them and I led them in the Cha Cha Slide in the end. The purpose of it was to get them more confident in their English. We invited them all to our English Class and said a prayer before and after the camp. It was a great opportunity to show that we are actually people and not some crazy foreigners who want to convert you. Thailand isn't what I expected it to be haha.
Saturday, we met with an investigator (Sister Ice) who is having problems and hadn't met us in weeks. She has been taking the lessons for some time now and is sort of making excuses for not keeping the commandments. But she's reading the scriptures and praying everyday. It's cool to see all the changes people make in the conversion process.
Sunday, I was sitting in church waiting for it to start and Brother Tea walked in who I thought was in Cambodia for two weeks. So he ended up getting the Holy Ghost in Cambodian which was cool. He came home early because he missed me. He's such a cool guy. After church we went to the Vietnamese Family apartment room thingy. They are a recently baptized "family". Both families came here from Vietnam and are refugees and are going to apply to move somewhere else in the world. It's so sad all of the refugees in the world. I'm glad I have the opportunity to serve all of these families in need of help. They are all sick with some sort of disease. Some forget stuff like how to eat and how to put on clothes and some half of their body gets paralyzed. So they asked for a blessing and the spirit was really strong in that little room. We taught Brother Bawg and his family and he's getting baptized next week. He's such a happy, cute, little older guy. His family is being taught the lessons too. I'm blessed that I get to teach that cute family. He's so cool.  
This week I was studying about obedience and came across D&C 93:24, 26-28 and it reads
24) And truth is knowledge of things as they are, and as they were, and as they are to come;
26) The Spirit of truth is of God. I am the Spirit of truth,and John bore record of me, saying: He received a fulness of truth, yea, even of all truth;
27) And no man receiveth a fulness unless he keepeth his commandments. 
28) He that keepeth his commandments receiveth truth and light, until he is glorified in truth and knoweth all things.
It's a simple message. If you keep the commandments your questions and testimony will be answered and strengthened and you'll continue to learn and grow and understand more truths about the Gospel. People who follow the commandments are happy and are blessed. People who go out and party all the time and do bad things aren't happy and why would you not want happiness in your life. It's so much better to have joy than to be sad, or have that worldy "happiness" that you get from breaking the commandments because it brings you temporary pleasure. It's not happiness. Wickedness never was happiness. On that happy note if you follow the commandments, you're on the straight and narrow path that leads to eternal happiness :). Love you all and miss you all!!!

Elder Decker
เอ็ลเดอร์ เดคเคอร์
Thailand Bangkok Mission

January 1, 2017

A mom visiting Thailand with her recently returned son sent this pic to mom

Fwd: White Christmas and Green No more

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From: Colby John Decker <colby.decker@myldsmail.net>
Date: January 1, 2017 at 9:49:12 PM PST
To: Robin Decker <Robinlynnd@gmail.com>
Subject: White Christmas and Green No more

Hello everyone. These past two weeks have been so fun. Christmas was a blast. It was such a White Christmas. We had three baptisms, two of the people were our investigators (Brother Tea and Brother Baw Bia) and ate at so many peoples houses. So much rice. It was cool getting to talk to all of you guys through the skype thing. We had transfers this last week and I'm not a greenie anymore which is weird because it feels like I still don't know anything. My new companion is Elder Hansen he is my phii or has been here a transfer longer than me. He's really cool. He has two black siblings. We didn't get any pictures together but I will this week hopefully. His last area was the Esan so he says some Esan words and people are so confused most the time cause he's white and speaking Esan. I'm in Rangsit for another transfer so I'm leading the area which is weird too. Bangkok is hard to get around. It'll be fun. In church all the missionaries had to give a talk and people actually said my Thai doesn't suck so I'm slowly progressing. 
Water Monitor Lizard is a swear word here, so weird. Some animal names are really offensive so you have to be careful. 
Everyone in Rangsit was gone because it's the holidays and schools out for awhile, so no one is on the campuses and are all out of the city visiting their families. Really hard getting appointments cause everyone says they aren't free. So we did a lot of contacting. Our goal is to get this ward to split because they're really close. We want Temple workers for the Temple that is being built here (I think) and they need more Stakes. The Lao elders are back in Thailand for some time until they can get a church in Lao again. I can't really remember what has happened these past two weeks. We're working hard and it's still really hot in cold season. I've talked to many drunk people including our taxi drivers. New Years is a big thing here in Thailand and they like eat with their families and party. It's a big holiday usually there is fireworks but not this year. We had curfews. Thailand is so much fun จริงๆ. The language is hard and it's frustrating at times, but the Thai people are so cool. It's so different from America. I ate squid and some other stuff I don't even know what it was. They don't really like Desserts here which is sad. For P-Day we went to play soccer with a bunch of missionaries. It was really cool except it was hard to find. Last P-Day we went to MBK which we went to before just a place you can get fake name brand stuff. I'm starting to enjoy contacting more. Here, it's a thing where you ask people who are smoking if they want to quit and if they say yes you ask for their cigarette and throw it on the ground. You can step on it for dramatic effect. Than you get their number and set up an appointment. It's a really good because pretty much everyone in Thailand has had Word of Wisdom problem so we have a lot of help and people know it's not good for their health. Through Faith in Jesus Christ you can stop smoking. One of the members here used to smoke 100 cigarettes a day but stopped because miracles do happen if you have enough faith.
These past couple weeks I have been studying about prayer because it's one of the most important things in conversion. It's a way to converse with your Father in Heaven and a lot of people in Thailand have never prayed before in their lives. God wants to answer your prayers but if you aren't willing to put the work and effort into it, it's not sincere. I've been trying to make my prayers more meaningful and not repetitious. You can receive revelation, help, and blessings from prayer but a lot of people don't make the time for it. In True to the Faith it says if you don't feel like praying, pray until you do feel like praying. You can't learn spiritual truths if you don't pray. God does answer prayers, It might not be on our time but He will answer it in his time and in a way you might not expect. When we sacrifice our time for God, He gives so much more back. I've seen it on my mission. I've learned this crazy hard language. I've seen the change in my life for the better. I'm happier because I'm not thinking about myself. This next year I want to keep changing and keep serving God and bringing others this Gospel I've had my whole life. I've learned so much from my mission already and I'm not even at six months yet. I have never been good at making goals but if you want change and growth you need to make goals so I challenge all of you to make goals for this year. Work towards that goal and have a constant reminder of it and be accountable for that goal. What's the point of a goal if there's no accountability. I love you all and คิดถึง everyone!! Happy New Years! สุขสันต์วันปีใหม่ !!!!!!! 
   

Elder Decker
เอ็ลเดอร์ เดคเคอร์
Thailand Bangkok Mission